
What Is RBDSMA?
What Is RBDSMA?
Why RBDSMA Conversations Should Be Normal – And Ongoing
When it comes to dating, sex, and intimacy — most people want the same things: safety, connection, consent, and clarity. But too often, we skip the most important step that makes all of that possible: talking openly before anything happens.
That’s where RBDSMA comes in.
This simple yet powerful tool creates a safe foundation before anything sexual or emotional unfolds. Whether you’re seeing someone new, deepening a relationship, or exploring kink, polyamory, threesomes or group experiences — RBDSMA is a practice everyone should know.

Pleasure in life
Embracing Pleasure, Freedom, and the New Moon in Pisces
Pleasure in life can take many forms—whether it’s savoring a delicious meal, indulging in sensual experiences, or simply enjoying a quiet moment alone. Yet, more often than not, pleasure is primarily associated with sexuality.
This morning, I woke up with a clear sign: today is a day for writing. I made myself a cup of tea and returned to bed, completely naked. That feeling—the warmth of the tea, the softness of the sheets, the freedom of my bare skin—was an absolute pleasure in itself.